### 2. Words of Open Vengeance or Unresolved Blame ("I'll never forgive them")
If a passing occurs while family tensions or long-standing feuds are still raw, visiting relatives sometimes harbor lingering anger. Uttering threats, accusations, or declarations of unforgiveness near the bedside is considered a severe spiritual violation.
* **The Reason:** Death is meant to be a space of ultimate reconciliation. Bringing toxic animosity into the 48-hour sacred window poisons the energetic environment, leaving living family members trapped in a cycle of unresolved bitterness that manifests as physical anxiety and prolonged grief loops.
### 3. Words of Absolute Final Panic ("We are ruined / What will we do?")
Focusing immediately on the material chaos, financial void, or worldly panic caused by a death ("How will we pay for this?" or "We are completely lost without them") in the immediate presence of the passing is heavily discouraged.
* **The Reason:** It reduces a human life and a sacred transition down to material utility and fear. Ancient customs dictated that the first hours belong entirely to reverence, silence, and prayer, leaving worldly concerns for later.
