My husband, Tyler, has been a commercial pilot for almost nine years, but our 7-year-old son, Mason, had never actually been a passenger on a plane his dad was flying.

 

He leaned into me, and I held him until his breathing settled.

 

That afternoon, I made two phone calls.

 

The first was to a family attorney.

 

The second was to Tyler.

 

He answered on the first ring.

 

“Thank God. I’ve been trying to reach you.”

 

“We need to discuss our marriage,” I said. “And we need to discuss how we’re going to protect Mason from being caught in the middle of it.”

 

“I know I made a mistake.”

 

“No,” I replied. “You madea series of choices. The announcement was just the first time I heard them out loud.”

 

He went silent.

 

I told him that I wanted an honest account of what had happened, a clear separation of our finances while we worked through the next steps, and a parenting arrangement that put Mason’s emotional well-being first.

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